People who are confident and skilled in
romance and sex generally feel good about themselves. They aren't overly
self-conscious about their bodies or worried about appearing desirable. However,
they do inquire and care about how to please their partner romantically and
sexually. They create time for romance and physical intimacy, and they don't
blame themselves or their partner when sex doesn't go smoothly. Confident people
want stay physically attractive for their partner—but without obsessing about
their bodies. Sexual confidence is not all about sex. It is about intimate
emotional connection, sharing, pleasing yourself and your partner, and having
fun.
Action Steps:Sexual confidence begins with
feeling good about yourself and liking who you are. If you're lacking
self-esteem, the best place to start is by working to improve it, perhaps
through counseling. If your self-esteem is good, but you just aren't confident
in the bedroom, remember confident sexual behavior can be learned with education
from expert sources and books written by qualified therapists. Do some research
and reading to enhance your knowledge and creativity. If you want feel better
about your body image, exercise regularly, as the endorphin boost will make you
feel great. Also communicate with your partner to learn what she/he likes and
share what you like to eliminate guesswork and frustration. This will make you
both feel more secure.
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