Small talk is the polite and sometimes
meaningless conversation you have at parties and other social gatherings. It's
light, casual conversation that creates a friendly atmosphere. The skill of
making small talk is important in social and business settings, and it shows you
have manners, poise and can engage other people. It is a cornerstone of
civility, as it fosters contact and encourages kindness. For some people, small
talk flows naturally—but for others, making small talk feels tedious and
overwhelming. Many people think small talk is an innate talent, but it is an
acquired skill. There is a structure and rules for making small talk that makes
connecting with others less intimidating.
Action Steps:In your next social encounter,
begin small talk by letting the other person know you are willing to engage.
Comment on the weather or about something in the surroundings. Then move on to
personal introductions and sharing information about who you are and what you
do. Throw out a light topic for conversation (a movie, a book you're reading,
etc.) and respond back to any topics thrown your way. Try not to spend too much
time focused on your favorite topic. Ask questions and show interest in the
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